I am very passionate about helping girls find and
accept their value. Below are some useful suggestions on how to find your
value.
Recognise
Your Value
How can you know your value if you don’t recognise that
you are valuable? That is the question. In order to feel valuable you have to
recognise who you are. As a Christian, I recognise that my value is from God
who tells me that I am fearfully and wonderfully made. I recognise that I made
in HIS image. I am assured that I am of inestimable value. In fact if you were
to price my value, I am simply priceless.
Accept
Your Value
When you recognise your value then the next journey is
full acceptance of who you are. So that includes accepting your strengths as
well as your weakness. When you accept your value you can work on your flaws. What
I have come to realise on my journey to accepting my value is that we all have
hang ups. There isn’t a person, on this earth that doesn’t feel insecure
sometimes. Even if they look like that have it all together, trust me they
struggle in some areas but they just focus on their strengths not weaknesses.
Increase
Your Value
Once you accept your value then you can start to
increase your value. You can increase your value by dedicating your life to
doing your best and being excellent. Invest in yourself. Learn a new skill, read more and give
more. You can also increase your value
by improving on the skills that you lack. So for example you may want to be a
public speaker so you start reading around and practising everything you can on
public speaking. Sooner or later your increased value and posture will start
attracting people your way who will offer you opportunities.
Believe
Your Value
When you have recognised your value, accepted your value
and increased your value, then you have to believe in your value. You have to
believe with all your heart and with your entire mind and with all your soul
that are indeed valuable.
The difference between accepting your value and believing
your value, is that once you believe in your value, you start walking in the power
of your belief which includes taking action. You will also present yourself like
a person who is valuable by improving your posture, mannerism and attitude.
It’s not enough to find your value and keep it all to
yourself. Once you are there, you should dedicate your life to making others
feel valuable too. That way everyone benefits.
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