BELIEVE YOU ARE VALUABLE

Every belief we know, has been taught, either through something we learned or heard. Believing in oneself is one of secrets of being confident and feeling valuable. It doesn’t matter what anyone has told you about yourself, you have to believe in yourself. The following tips will help.

WATCH YOUR WORDS

Girls have to be careful about what they say about themselves. Some girls believe that are not bright enough, not good enough, not intelligent enough, not pretty enough and they say this out loud. The more you speak negative words, then the more you will believe it. So watch your words and don’t say anything bad about yourself.

BELIEVE GOOD THINGS

Believe that good things will happen to you. Be expectant and look forward to tomorrow because where there is life, there is hope. Believe that you can do anything you set your mind to do. Believe that you can get that A grade that you are looking for. Believe that you can get into the school of your choice and believe that you are just as good as the next person.

HAVE A JOURNAL

Write down what you are believing for. Look at your goals daily, so that they become your reality. Maybe you want to get into that science group in your school. Or maybe you want to represent your school in a debating contest. You have to believe you will get in first before it can become your reality.

BELIEVE FOR BIG THINGS

Believe and stretch your goals for bigger things. There is nothing impossible to those who believe. Believe on things that seem impossible and watch your dreams unfold. As we know, the Williams sisters are international tennis players but even as they were growing up they believed that one day they would win. They were in it to win it from the start of their careers.  As we can see their results speak for themselves. They believed.

BELIEVE FOR A BETTER TOMORROW

Finally girls, fix your eyes on the good things about yourself and also believe that no matter how today went, tomorrow will be better.  

Note for parents & teachers

Adults have a lot to play in a girl’s belief system.  If we don’t believe in our girls, then its more difficult for them to believe in themselves. As much as possible refrain from saying negatives things to girls. Don’t say things like, “You will never be able to get into that school”.’”You will never be like your sister or brother” “You can never pass that exam". Rather speak encouraging words that help girls feel better about themselves. Say something like this, "Believe you can do it  RiRi, believe it". 

Then watch her FLY!