MONEY CANT BUY LOVE

Back in the day, every young girl wanted to marry her prince charming. A man that would love her and cherish her for life.  It appears that things are changing and many girls would rather just marry for money. It doesn’t matter how the man is treating her, she just loves the fact that he has lots of money.  ‘I will suffer any insults or beating’, she says. Well I have bad news for you,  ‘Money cant buy love’ and as a valuable lady you should not settle for anything less than someone who loves you. I have seen too many women who have married soley for money and are now in such unhappy marriages or have left them.

Listed below are some qualities you should look out for when you decide to settle down.

Character

You want someone who has a good character which is more than just his personality. His character is who is and the way he treats others. A man with a good character will love you through thick and thin. Even if you have difficulties through your marriage, like financial stresses, he wont beat you or abuse you emotionally. 

When you are ready to settle down look for a man that has strong character and who has a good name. A man who lacks character is really a weak man who cant make good decisions and is unstable. Look for a man who’s yes is yes and no is no and who is straightforward.

Justice

A man who is fair makes a good life long partner rather just focussing on his money. He will be able to look at things from all perspectives rather than one view. He will want to protect you because he believes in justice. He wont allow his mother or sisters to bully you because he treasures you.  A man with justice will not intimidate you with his money. Even if he has lots of money he will be fair to you.

Wisdom

If you want to marry a man purely for his money, he may lack wisdom. He may have money for a season and then it may run out quickly because he has not cared for it well. He will tend to hasty decisions if he lacks wisdom. Look for a man who has good judgement about all things including his money. He saves for a rainy day. He makes plans and has a vision.

Love

Love is the greatest gift of all and when it comes to finding your life partner this should be a priority over money. I am not talking just about love that you read about in romantic novels. I am talking about a commitment to love. A commitment to love you whether you are lean or whether you are plump.  

A commitment to love for better or for worse. 

A commitment to love through all seasons.

Your Part

As a valuable lady you have to do your part. You should be kind, gentle and loving and the right man will find you.