EFFECTS OF HIGH SELF ESTEEM ON A GIRL

It is important that girls learn to develop high self esteem which is not necessarily about being an extrovert but more to do with inner belief and how she values herself. Below are a few characteristics that you can spot in a girl with high self esteem.

NOT SHY

She is definitely not shy or timid. She may not be the life and soul of the party either but she likes to meet new people and will go out of her way to introduce herself and say her name. Because she doesn’t worry about how others judge her, if she tries to make a friend but someone is not interested she will see it as their loss and quickly move on.

EXPRESSES HERSELF

A girl with high self esteem is comfortable expressing herself. She is a great communicator. You will know exactly where you stand with her as a friend. She is not cagey or afraid to express how she feels.  She doesn’t build a wall around herself. She is not afraid of her emotions because she knows who is. She is not afraid to be vulnerable, when she wants to, because she sees that as strength.

ADVENTUROUS

She always seeks new experiences. She lives an enriched life. She is adventurous and is not afraid to try out new things. She doesn’t care what others think about her adventures and doesn’t wait to get approval. She goes for what she wants.

FUN GIRL

A girl with high esteem is fun and nice to be around. She respects others and respects herself. You will rarely hear her gossiping about others because her life is filled with activities and she has a lot of interests.

A LEADER

She is probably a leader either a class prefect or head girl. If she belongs to a club she is probably a committee member. She always wants to be involved in activities where she can lead.  She is not bossy though and doesn’t make others feel bad. Whether in school or at Sunday school, she always volunteers herself to lead. She is a magnet to new opportunities.

LESS DOWN DAYS

A girl with high self esteem has less down days because she is an optimist. She chooses to look on the bright side of life.  She will probably have less mental and health issues as an adult because she has learnt to voice things out when she needs to.

A girl with high self esteem has an ‘I can do’ attitude and above all values herself.

Is that girl you?