Etiquette Goals for the New year

It really surprises me the amount of adults that don’t say please, thank you, excuse me and sorry. So it’s no wonder that some of our children growing up in Nigeria are not making it a habit either. We can’t expect to enforce manners in schools, if it is not taught at home. As parents we need to be mindful of what we are projecting because our children mirror us.  Please, Thank you, excuse me, sorry, you’re welcome are universal appreciation words, anyway in the world.

Here are 8 Etiquette goals that we can all practice a lot more in the work place, at home or at an event.

1. Say please and thank you with every request. This doesn't mean just with important people but everyone whether its your driver, house keeper subordinate or senior level manager. We should respect everyone.

2. Be on time for every appointment and event. Let's stop making excuses about African time or Nigerian time and turn up on time for appointments or events.

3.Let's keep our items and areas at home and in the office clean and neat.

4. Invite someone to lunch or coffee once a month. The best way you get to know people is through face to face communication. Don't hide behind social media. Meet up with people if you can.

5. Make a habit of turning off mobile phones when in meetings.

6. Follow through with what you say. If you say you're going to send me something then make sure you do. Otherwise don't make a promise.

7. Write and send thank you notes.

8. Aim to get involved in a charitable cause this year. Look for something that you’re really passionate about.

Remember, 'No act of kindness no matter how small is ever wasted!'